24 November 2008

question

if you were unfaithful in your relationship, but you really loved that person and wanted to start a life with them, would you tell them what you did, or would you keep it to yourself?

(i'll write why i'm asking this question later)









if inspiration comes, i shall blog 10 times a day if needed!

4 comments:

seattlePR said...

The only problem with this question is that no one can answer it for you. They can only answer for themselves because it's not their life. They take no risks when they answer. Another big problem with your question is that any answer is equally right and wrong. For instance, you may decide to tell them because you love them. But then I could argue that if you really loved them than you would protect them from getting hurt. You could also argue that you shouldn't lie. And I could argue that it's not lying if they never ask you about it because they don't know. You could say that if they love you they will forgive you. Or you could say that if you love them you wont hurt them just to clear your mind. The question you should be asking is whether or not you should follow your heart. After all, you wouldn't be in this predictment if your heart didn't want you to. You know the answer, just listen.

Marko. said...

of course you would tell them,, if you loved them and they loved you... situational things can be worked out, lies can't.






and P.S. i don't really care if i die, if my blog annoys you, don't read it... one less person on this earth can do global warming some good.

StarzGazR said...

WOW!! K soo i think i'm putting some pieces together of your secret and i can't wait for you to decide to open up to us and give us details... but take your time and be sure you're ready!!!

anywho.. i've been in this situation before..on both ends.. with my ex.. he did it to me and he never told me.. of course he got sloppy with it and i found out through people... and in another incident i was "the cheater" and it was only a one time thing and i never told him.. and never plan too. .just because i know the type of person he is and no matter how much he may or maynot have loved me.. it's something that he will NEVER forgive.. now i have a new motto.. I won't do things i don't want to tell my partner about... i KNOW it's easier said then done.. but at the end of the say it's just like seattlepr says.. ONLY YOU CAN ANSWER THAT FOR YOURSELF!!!
take care huns =)

Marko. said...

mmM, i guess it's only appropriate to say, that yes, i'm a vivid writer and i've got kinda... a fast life....

and have run into... some problems...


but it shouldn't worry you, or scare you.. thank you for the compliment, but i guess it's easy for me to say not to worry to a stranger but really, my-er- lifestyle choice... is one that i am very aware of.. and no one close to ending... i mean, not in liek a dying sort of way you know? idk what im saying